Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Prayers, Please.....

Tomorrow Debbie and I will be scattering our parents ashes. We have struggled with what to do, especially with our Mom's ashes since she never told us her wishes. We finally came up with a plan and tomorrow is the day.

I have no idea how I'll be through this process. It helps with closure. Since I have retired I've been real busy..well, the first 2 weeks of retirement..I have realized right now that the relief I feel that my folks no longer suffer is greater than the grief I feel. I think that will change over time, but I'm not sure.

It's been 6 weeks since Mom died. The time has gone by quickly. I find what I miss most is not being able to call my folks up and say "hi."

Debbie and I are in Friday Harbor right now. We have had some meetings regarding our parents estate. It's beautiful here and the weather has been wonderful! I'll post more pictures later..after we get through tomorrow.

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